The Help by Kathryn Stockett | Why Girls Are Weird

Thursday, September 22, 2011

The Help by Kathryn Stockett

Skeeter Phelan has just returned home after graduating from Old Miss and although she has a degree her mother will not rest until Skeeter has a ring on her finger.  But the only thing Skeeter can think about is that she's come home to find her beloved maid, Constantine, gone and she wants to know why.

Aibileen is a black maid currently raising her 17th white child.  And after the death of her son she finds that something in her has shifted, making her harder than before.  Although she loves the little girl she cares for she knows one day things will shift and that little girl will see her as not someone she loves but simply as the maid.

Minny is Aibileen's best friend and is known around Jackson, Mississippi for having a big mouth.  Although she can cook like nobodies business she doesn't know when to hold her tongue and that gets her into all sorts of trouble.  After being fired from her previous job, she finally finds a new one with a white woman who has secrets of her own.

All these women are so different and yet in The Help they come together because of a common bond.  They want to see changes in the town that they live in.  But do those changes come with too steep a price?  Lines are about to be crossed and lives are about to change.

Obviously, I am a little behind in getting to this book.  It wasn't until the movie came out that I thought maybe it would be an interesting read.  What I found in the pages of this book was more than I ever thought.  And I truly believe that this is the kind of book that everyone should read.  The characters in this book are so amazingly REAL and after finishing I could help but feel like I was saying goodbye to some amazing friends (Skeeter, Minny, Aibileen and even crazy Celia Foote) as well as some enemies (Hilly Holbrook).  And as I've always said, a book that can make me cry is a good book.  And I will tell you all right now this book made me cry.

Pick it up and read it.  You need to.

39 wonderful thoughts:


my friend gave me this the other day...does look really goood!

Sarah - dodeline design

I have been meaning to read this book! I'm always a books-are-better-than-movies girl and I haven't seen the movie yet, so this is a must-read!


I'm about halfway through this book right now, but I've seen the movie and I have to say that Celia might have been my favorite character in the movie, behind Minny.

The movie was so good. One of the best I may have ever seen. Such great casting. So after seeing the movie, I decided I HAD the read the book because books > movies. I'm really, really enjoying it so far, especially since you get more of a deeper knowledge into the character's lives in the book.

Cafe Fashionista

I am dying to read this book - even more so after reading this review. Definitely picking this one up over the weekend! :)


This book was absolutely fantastic. I agree - this should be required reading for everyone. They should add it to the curriculum for high school reading. And the movie was one of those rare finds that actually does a great job of representing the book upon which it's based. Love, love, love.

Chic 'n Cheap Living

Thanks for the review. I definitely need to read this soon (love books that can make you cry)

Chic 'n Cheap Living


I loved The Help! I still haven't seen the movie though...soon.

Dancing Branflake

I saw your tweets and Facebook posts and was like "looke like I'm reading The Help!" I always appreciate your book recommendations.

Dixie Bell Designs

I just finished it and I loved it! I can't wait to see the movie now. I am glad I finished the book before the movie left the theaters.


I really want to read this--I am flying to Paris on Tuesday and thought this might be a good plane read... though if you're saying I'm going to cry (and I'm a big-time cryer) then maybe I should skip it and go with something light instead. But I fully intend to read this soon--have heard SO many great things!

Scientific Housewife

It was a great book and movie!

ilene @ muchloveilly

one of my all time favorite book and movie!


I absolutely loved this book! Can't wait to see the movie.

Mrs. Pancakes

The book was great! Still haven't seen the movie!

Mom Taxi Julie

I saw the movie first and then listened to the audio book. I think the movie followed the book really well. I really liked them both!

la petite coquine

Such an incredibly beautiful book-I'm so glad you loved it as much as I did!

xoxoxoxo, Lena


Yeah.... I really need to get on this. Everyone who picks it up loves it and its about time I loved it too!

Glad you enjoyed dear, xx!


A.MAZ.ING! Wonderfully written, hope the movie doesn't let me down like they so often do!


loved this book and loved the movie!

Jessie Szmanda

I heard this was a great book and movie!

Amber Blue Bird

I normally have to read the book before seeing the film but mother had to see the movie right when it came out so I went with her and absolutely loved it.

j. littlejohn

i loved this movie, for reals

monster cakes

Thanks for the sweet comment! And wasn't this book so amazing?! I was slightly disappointed in the movie, though I thought the actors did a superb job. So glad I found your blog! I'm smitten already!


Everyone I know who has read it really recommends it!

Vanisha @ Vanisha's Life In...Australia

I look forward to reading this. I'm intrigued by all the characters!

Selma @ Crazy Little World Of Mine

Loved this book so much!!!! ;D

The Favour Shoppe

I so want to rad this book!! GREAT review!

The Blonde Duck

Celia was my favorite!

Oh my Dior!

I wish I could read that book maybe i will soon!


I definitely have to read that! Everybody is talking about that :)

Elle Sees

i heard it on audiotape--hey, it was free...and cried my eyes out.
the author lives in Atl, so I'm secretly on the lookout for her!

Ruby Girl

I'm very curious about this book, especially since the movie seemed so impactful. Still haven't seen the movie myself either though. I'm itching to! Thanks for sharing, Krysten! <3


I read it in just two days about a month ago and I loved it!! I wish there was a sequel because I am dying to know what happens next. I was sad when it was over. I have yet to see the movie.....


I hope this movie comes out in Mexico! Mybe I'll try to get the book at Christmas


the help is definitely on my to-read list! and i really want to read the book first before i watch the movie. :)

<3, Mimi
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I've heard so many positive comments on this book! I so have to read it now.

I'm thinking I should read the book first before I watch the movie. :)

XoXo, Bree
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Well I'm even more behind than you! I still haven't read it. (I have it on my shelf though, ready for when I finish the book I'm reading.) I'm glad you liked it, I can't wait to pick it up!

Crazy Shenanigans-JMO

I still have yet to read this!!!


This was a great book. I also really enjoyed the movie.