The 50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind Part 3 | Why Girls Are Weird

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

The 50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind Part 3


11.  You’re having lunch with three people you respect and admire.  They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your friend.  The criticism is distasteful and unjustified.  What do you do?  In my junior year of high school I was away with my friends for YIG, one of my favorite things about high school.  I was in an elevator with a bunch of people, a few of whom were these really cute, intelligent guys a year ahead of me that I absolutely wanted to impress.  The elevator opened onto one of the floors and my best friend was there, doing something ridiculous, as my entire group of friends was prone to do back in those days.  The door closed and those same cute, intelligent guys started making fun of her.  I knew they were on floors above mine so I let them keep doing it until we reached my floor.  I hit the door hold button, turned around and told the guys off for being such jerks.  Then I sauntered out of the elevator, head held high.

You trash talk someone I care about and I will tell you off.  Done deal.

12.  If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?  Make mistakes and don't worry so much about them.  For a lot of my life I worried so much about every little mistake I made.  The thing is, we all make mistakes.  As long as we learn from them though then it's all good.  These days I figure mistakes are going to happen, I might as well just roll with them and let them take me where they may.  Sometimes life's more fun that way.

13.  Would you break the law to save a loved one?  For me this would really depend on the circumstances.  What law is being broken and whether or not it would hurt someone else.  I do believe that sometimes rules are made to be broken but I'd also want to try to find a way around breaking the law first.

14.  Have you ever seen insanity where you later saw creativity?  Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is one of my FAVORITE movies.  It's really trippy and takes a little getting used to.  I suppose you would say it feels a little insane at first but it really is a gorgeous, though provoking movie.

15.  What’s something you know you do differently than most people?  Haha, well I'm left handed, so I certainly use a different hand than a lot of people.  I honestly can't think of anything else that I do differently per say...

Past Questions

21 wonderful thoughts:


I seriously need to check out Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. It sounds incredible! :)

Jamie Leigh

There are some tough questions this week! The one about breaking the law to save a loved one has got me thinking!


I think I'm raising a leftie!


Love your answer to #1!

and, as you know, I'm a lefty too... wouldn't have it any other way. You know they say we're in our right mind, right?! :)

Elle Sees

My two weird things would be I analyze handwriting (I can tell the person's personality with pretty good accuracy) and I have synesthesia.


i'm always scared i'll say something not nice about someone else to somebody and that somebody will know that someone else...i guess that's why i just must use nice words all the time (:

you're very welcome for the shoutout for your giveaway. (: and thanks for your sweet words on my first outfit post!

Rachel {Da Paura ♥}

Wow, such questions to ponder and great advice!


Mr. Taylor and his Lady

i love your advice to a new child; make mistakes and don't worry so much about them. i think sometimes we take ourselves too seriously. life is too short to worry!
xo TJ

Polly Davies

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is one of my favourite movies!

and great advice about making mistakes - I used to be terrified of making mistakes, and missed out on so much because of it

Dancing Branflake

I love that first story. It shows your incredible courage and class.


Loving these questions, especially the one about true!

Alexandra xo


Yeah that breaking the law question needs more clarification. I'm not gonna murder anyone but I might harbor a fugitive.

Jessie Szmanda

Make mistakes. Love the advice to the new born, so wise friend!


Definitely some great questions to work through. Still loving that you're doing this! :)

amy b.s.

that lunch with 3 people question gets me every time. there are just so many amazing people i'd like to meet and learn from!

The Demoiselle

LOVE this series and learning about the person behind the blog. On another note: I can't believe I STILL have yet to see Eternal Sunshine. I've got to get on it!

Mrs. Pancakes

great the advice to the new born! and i agree with the Eternal Sunshine...for the longest time..i was like huh?! but such a great movie indeed!

Lena at A Crimson Kiss

I love the way you protect people in your life, but also your desire to make sure everyone is safe. You're a pretty damn fabulous girl, and I'd be happy to have you in my corner!

Violet Tinder

love this series... so fun yet thought-provoking!! :)

Jessi Haish

this is so great! really makes ya think :)


Way to tell those guys off! I feel the same way as you--I stick up for my friends, because I hope they'd do the same for me! And yes too, to making mistakes. I tend to be a perfectionist, but I'm constantly reminding myself to lighten the heck up!